Regarding losses, the good old tried and tested FTSIO strategy still works pretty well for me, always happy to share that one (NSFW version) : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5FjWe31 ... l=FFStudio
I think literally everyone does that to start with, it's human psychology at its most default setting? I blew a big chunk myself and needed a step back to learn the necessary lessons. My expectations, like everyone else's, were all over the place and I had to drastically adjust them in order to continue.
The market is not going to cough up profit every time you politely ask, you have to forcefully pry it from its dead cold hands. If you're going to attack a particular market you have to expect that it's going to fight back, that should never come as a surprise and yet people keep being surprised by that despite all of the disclaimers and warnings about that.
Some of these idioms aren't too suited for trading, since it's not a good idea to personalize it too much because you're mostly battling your own self and not the market, but you know what I mean